Freedom comes in many ways and sometimes requires help, humility, and determination. Yesterday I became free from the expectations and beliefs concerning my hair. From as far back as I could remember my hair was always straightened. Having a mixture of black/creole hair texture my hair is soft, curly, and relatively thick, or so I’ve been told by stylists. My hair did not however react positively to being straightened with hot combs or being permed. My hair would burn when straightened or would break off when permed. One day I decided enough is enough. I asked myself why I was so concerned about the expectations of others, and not as concerned about my own wants and the needs of my hair. What I wanted was healthy hair, my true hair. So I did it, I cut it off.
In reality I CUT away the expectations, the lies about black hair, and the negative thoughts people of all races had towards my natural hair. I no longer cared because at that moment I had to learn to care about me, regardless of the thoughts and expectations of others. It was not an easy decision but well worth it. Transitioning from processed hair to natural hair was in reality a transitioning of my mind. I went through a transformation of my thoughts. My hair journey has been a journey of self-acceptance and self-love because I owned the true me. I discovered what I wanted for my hair, for my life, and I now celebrate the natural me, UNAPOLOGETICALLY.
Wow this is amazing!! How long have you been on your natural hair journey?
Hi Tanesha and thanks for the question. I actually began my natural hair journey back in late 2015. I should have dated my diary entry but neglected to do so. I will make sure to include such information in the future. Your question inspired growth in the telling of my stories. Thanks again!